17 Best Sex Toys for Plus Size Bodies
It’s no surprise that having a bigger body can affect how you experience sexual pleasure.
Which is why uncovering the best plus size sex toys for you to use is important.
Sex toys aren’t necessary, but they both help enhance your overall experience and can make your solo game better.
But not every toy is made for every plus size goddess, and we don’t all get off on the same sensations.
So, let’s see what toys plus size women love:
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Best plus size sex toys
Clit sucker
Penguin Satisfyer
The Penguin Satisfyer is my top recommendation for sex toy, period.
Granted, clit stimulation has to be your thing. But if it is, this bad boy is SHADES above everything else.
While this doesn’t help with reach issues, it does work if you have a larger clit—honestly, most clit stimulators are made with small openings that don’t work for everyone.
I can confirm that the Penguin vibe:
- Is whisper quiet — I have no roommates, but if I did they wouldn’t hear anything
- Has 11 intensity levels
- Is USB-rechargeable (though, admittedly, I HATE the Satisfyer chargers)
- Soft
- Comfortable
- Waterproof
It’s also fairly easy to clean, and uses their standard (and titillating) air pulse technology.
Satisfyer Pro 2
My first clitoral stimulator was the Satisfyer Pro 2.
While I genuinely enjoyed it, I have to say the Penguin (which is a newer model) works better for me. However, I think the Satisfyer Pro 2 has a slightly bigger opening (and cheaper price tag, depending on where you buy it).
If you’re prone to over stimulation, I might suggest going with this one over the Penguin.
Both are powerful, but the Penguin is just that much more and I suspect it would be easy to get over stimulated.
I do want to point out that these two Satisfyer clit stimulators are not like vibrators, they don’t actually touch anything.
Instead, they use air pulses to stimulate. However, this isn’t the best feeling for everyone!
There isn’t anything that specifically makes this a plus size sex toy except that I am plus size, and I’ve used one.
Flicking tongue stimulator
This is a style of toy that I haven’t personally tried, but it’s on the top of my list.
Unfortunately, I live in Mexico and I’m simply not confident it would make its way here.
But for those babes living state-side, the Stella might be the perfect plus size sex toy for you.
Instead of air pulsing, this bad boy uses a tongue-flicking sensation.
It’s USB-rechargeable, has 3 speeds, and is splash-proof.
I also love that it’s small enough to pack, and has a travel-safe lock so you don’t have any airport accidents.
Better Love Butterfly
The Better Love Butterfly is cute, fun, and perfectly packable.
It features 10 vibration modes, is waterproof, and can run for 90 minutes.
It’s made of medical grade, body-safe silicone.
While this isn’t going to be the best toy if you have reach issues, the design is ergonomic and it provides pin-point accuracy.
You’ll want to make sure you only use water-based lubes with this guy (like other silicone toys).
Vibrators
Hitachi Magic Wand
The Hitachi Magic Wand is one of the most popular vibrators on the market.
I admit that I haven’t personally used one before, but everyone I know that has it raves about it.
What makes this a great sex toy for plus size bodies is the fact that it’s got a hella long handle.
Now, this is probably not a vibrator you want to take on vacation because it’s a tad bit large. But it:
- Has 4 intensity levels
- Can be used with or without a cord
- Is made of body safe material
The real downside is that this isn’t water or splash proof — but it is an exceptional toy to share with your partner!
Panty vibe
Panty vibes are also a great option if you have limited reach.
You simply slip something like the Romp Wave vibe into your panties, and get to vibin’.
Made of premium silicone, this remote-control vibrator features 4 different vibrating sensations.
The best part is the vibe on this bad boy is quite, so your roommate (probably) won’t hear you.
You can enjoy the panty vibe in a solo session, or with your partner.
If you’re going for risqué, you could even wear it out and about!
Travel vibe
If you’re someone who travels a lot (like yours truly), you might want something a tad bit more portable.
That’s where the Lelo 2 (which is hella cute) comes in.
This is a compact lipstick vibrator that you can charge right from a USB port — which means you don’t need to bring along a charger if you have your USB-capable laptop.
The USB port has another advantage — it kind of looks like it could be a small portable stick drive. You’re the only one who knows it’s not!
If you want something truly small and discrete, this is the toy for you.
Insertable vibes
Image: Amazon
Dual vibrator
If you’re interested in some anal action, the Adam & Eve dual vibrator might just be for you.
I personally think this would be a toy best shared with your partner, but you can absolutely use it solo if you get the angle right.
It features a dildo and anal bead end, both of which are insertable. The dildo has a 4.75-inch end, and the beads are 4.5-inches.
There’s a centra motor that controls the vibration for both ends.
It’s waterproof, and battery operated — which means you don’t have to pack it in your carry-on.
FYI You can save money with this toy when you purchase through Amazon (at the time of writing this).
B-vibe plug
Also for anal lovers is the B-vibe plug.
This bad boy is the petite version, so you don’t have to be an expert to use it (though you do want to be super careful).
This is another great partner toy due to the remote. But that’s also what makes it a great option for plus size solo players.
So long as you can carefully insert it, you don’t need to do a ton of reaching around to enjoy it.
This toy is:
- Body safe
- Waterproof
- Compact and travel-friendly
- Easy to clean
- Remote controlled
Satisfyer Sunshine
I like the Satisfyer Sunshine vibrator, simply because of it’s color. But it works like a charm too!
Made of body-safe silicone, this insertable vibrator has 12 settings that you can enjoy.
This is another great plus size sex toy due to its extended length. Unlike smaller vibrating choices, you or your partner have ample space to work with.
It works similar to a rabbit vibrator with a vibrating section that can stimulate your clit while its inserted.
This vibrator is rechargeable, waterproof, and the handle is ergonomic.
FYI: If you want the Sunshine but want to save a ton of cash, the Amazon sale price is less than half price in relation to other stores.
Non-vibe insertables
Suction dildo
A suction dildo is perfect for solo play if you need (or want) penetration.
The suction on the bottom allows you to suction it (go figure) to a surface and go to town.
It has 6-inches of insertable length that has an “incredibly life-like” feel to it.
It’s up to you how you use it, but popular positions include:
- Shower wall
- Bathtub edge
- The floor
- Toilet seat
- Dildo mount
NJoy Pure Wand
This NJoy Pure Wand is a classic case of looks being deceiving.
Made of medical-grade steel, this bad boy is not quite a dildo but, I assure you, it doesn’t need to be to get the job done.
Designed to hit the G or P-spot (whichever you’ve got) this simple-to-use sex toys is perfect for plus size babes, regardless of whether there’s a partner in the picture.
What makes this a particularly helpful toy for bigger bodies is 8-inch length, giving you ample reaching room.
Both ends are insertable. One has a 1-inch taper, the other a 1.5-inch taper.
Definitely double-check that you wash this bad boy before AND after each use. Beyond that, enjoy!
FYI: The Njoy Pure Wand is another example of the Amazon price being considerably more affordable than other options.
Glass dildo
I’ll be the first to admit that I’m a little wary about introducing glass into my sex life, especially if you venture off the bed.
That said, due to factors like weight and temperature regulation, I’ve heard wonderous things about it.
Which brings me to this blue flower spiral glass dildo.
This bad boy is always hard, has 7 inches of insertable length, and retains both heat and coolness.
Other pleasure enhancers
While we’ve covered the basics, those aren’t the only toys on the market.
If you’re looking for something different, these toys (and sex assistants) might make a great addition to your list:
Liberator Moustache Wedge
I admit that I picked the Liberator Moustache Wedge because I thought it was a fun addition to the list.
But using a pillow during sex has countless advantages.
They give you a more stable, firmer base to work with, which can help you achieve more comfortable positions.
If the moustache design doesn’t ring your bell, you’ll be happy to know there are other shape options, including:
You don’t need all of these, but one can seriously make your next sexy time more pleasurable.
Adjustable strap-on harness
Not unlike other clothing-related items, strap-ons don’t always come in plus sizes.
I really had to dig around to find something suitable, but I think this adjustable one from a creator on Etsy fits the bill.
Created by LeatherSub, a BDSM item designer, this 4-way adjustable harness can go from a size 12 to 30 — which provides us bigger girls a little more leg room (literally and figuratively).
Purchasers confirm that this harness is beautifully made, comfortably, and fits a plus size body.
It’s made of a gorgeous satin fabric-covered material.
There are three interchangeable O-rings so you can insert your favorite toy!
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Liberator Bonbon
Like a few of the other options on this list, the Liberator Bonbon is a bit of an investment.
If you’re someone who struggles to reach down below comfortably but particularly enjoy vaginal penetration, it might be the ideal masturbation buddy.
It’s the perfect toy to facilitate penetration on a solo venture.
You simply mount this bad boy and bounce comfortably at your own pace.
The downside to this toy is that you’ll need to be able to comfortably support yourself on your knees, which might not be ideal.
However, the height of the pillow could provide more relief than a standard suction dildo.
Queening stool
When it comes to finding quality sex furniture that works for bigger individuals, we need to think weight limits.
Sometimes (often), that can be hard to find. But this queening stool offers some serious potential.
What is a queening stool, you ask?
A queening stool (or queening chair) helps provide a more comfortable setting for cunnilingus to be performed.
While face-sitting, as its often referred to, is pleasant to receive, kneeling (quite literally) over a partner’s face can be a challenging position to hold.
A queening stool helps make it considerably easier.
And this one can hold up to 160 kg (roughly 350 lbs), which gives some of us bigger bodies a chance to enjoy!
Why do plus size bodies have issues using specific sex toys?
Having a big body doesn’t mean you can’t have great sex or a good experience with toys. But it can effect how you experience them.
Two big challenges plus size bodies have that changes their experience with toys is the reaching issue and reduced (easy) access to important parts!
Struggling to reach around your stomach (or another body part) can make using smaller-sized toys more challenging.
Plus, additional girth around the vaginal area can mean you need to fish a little harder to access areas that respond to simulation.
Neither of these things means you can’t use sex toys. You simply have to find the right toy for you.
